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They say true friendship is hard to come by and that means absolute the genuine, true friendship and not the friendship of convenience that we witness nowadays. The first question that will come to your mind is that how do you define and then what is a true friendship? True friendship is defined as the one whereby, you just about can do anything for the other person and there is no expectation of a return compliment or even a thank you form that person. You just do it because you feel for that person and the feeling is unconditional.

Thus said, you can just be your true self with a true friend. You can pour out your emotions as well as your feelings without any issues, as to how the other person will react. This is pure and true form of friendship and sometimes, it is this feeling that may translate into love also.

When you go for a travel or a visit somewhere you will always think of the nicest gift for your friend even ahead of your family members, this is the best example of a true friendship. Sometimes you will also feel for the other person in a manner no one else can.

For example if your best friend lost his job you will be the one who can comfort her or him just putting your arm around his shoulder and that is enough. No words spoken or said but that feeling itself is enough to tell him that you feel for him. It is this unspoken feeling for the other person which is true friendship. You can go to any lengths to do anything for that person. In fact the famous saying is that “a friend in need is a friend indeed”.

This saying has its basis because in the worst of the situations all other folks will run away, whereas you will be the only one who will be there through thick and thin. With this I can say that for maintaining this purest form of relationship you should always make sure that you have no conditions or strings attached. If you do anything for the friend make sure that you do it without any pre-conceived notions of anything to get in return and that is the simplest and the only way of maintaining a true friendship. No less and no more. Hopefully these simple  tips  will help get through with the relationship that you so desire to keep a true friendship, and be a great friend.

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