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If your love is nagging you, they probably have something to tell you, so they keep telling you until you listen. This can be a bit annoying and unhealthy to some extent but some people have this manipulation and nagging symptom which you need to deal with. Some do it in the open where you know you are being nagged, while some do this in a manner where you don’t realize that you are being nagged. In either cases you start second guessing yourself and take this upon you as your own fault.

Does this sound familiar:

The list can go on….
Don’t feel bad about listening to these statements, what you will find is that sometimes its just a question of communicating effectively or it could be a situation for attention. Either ways here are a few ways to deal with this:

Before speaking back, you need to be in the right frame of mind. You need to make your girl/guy/husband or wife realize that the relationship has a communication problem and that’s the first step. Once both you and your partner have accepted this you can move ahead.

As soon as you feel accused of something the natural reaction is to go on the defensive. Instead take time out to sort the situation right that very day. Don’t lave it over night or for another day as this can build up into something completely different.

When you are accused of something instead of taking the burden on you take a step back and clarify the reason you were late from home. May be its work that is keeping you away. Explain how you feel tired. Express understanding that you know that people should spend time and allocate a day or some time during the evening to speak to your partner.

In this way you are being co-operative with the other half. If your other half still keeps up this behavior then its important to explain to your other half how this behavior affects you emotionally and mentally as no one should have the right to disturb anyone’s peace of mind.

These are a few tips and hope you are able to bring about an understanding in your relationship

All the best