Confused if its True Love or Not?
Before committing to marriage its very important to understand that the person you plan spending the rest of your life is truly in love with you for who you are. The same applies to you, both of you need to be sure that you are in love and are companions before making the decision. Here are a few questions that you could think about to make your decision
1. Do you want the best for this person? If this person got a job offer that meant traveling to a different location without you to get started, would you be happy for this person to take up the offer or would you prefer this person toss the job so that they could be with you. Would the other person do the same if you had the job offer?
2. Does the person love you for you or is this person more fixated to artificial attributes in life such as looks, figure, money, how much time you spend with them? If your relationship is based on superficial fantasies then you need to have a reality check
3. Is this person prepared to wait for you or is this person in a rush to get married. ofcourse circumstances like society pressures do come into the picture so don’t get this wrong. you need to carefully analyse if this person is feeling insecure or if its external pressures. Only you can be a judge on this topic.
4. Is this person supportive and makes an effort to contribute in what your goals are. Say for example if you are planning a road trip is this person also happy planning this roadtrip. Another example could be does this person help you with your goals irrespective of receiving recognition for the work or do they get involved only if they will be recognized by external parties for assisting you?
5. Can you be friends? or is it more of a companionship out of necessity or convenience.
6. If you have less income does this person grib and morn about how other people are better off and keeps reiterating that they are making a lot of sacrifices which they would not have to if they were in a relationship with someone else.
7. Does this person care about your family as musch as they care about themselves having you around them. Would they be upset if you spent more time with your friends and family and less time with them on certain occassion.
8. Does this person compare themselves with the rest of their species or is this person just happy having you to love.
If you have answered these questions with an pen mind you will get your answers if you are in a relationship that has a strong foundation of love or a foundation that has a possibility to fall.
When you love someone there comes a stage where people have to comprimise and sacrifice. It works both ways so do take time out to figure out your relationship before you get totally immersed in it. All the best!!!!
Image Credits: Randy Son Of Robert
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