Arranged marriages are really fascinating. We see in the Hindi movies where a group of girls will be giggling and taking the married bride into this room that’s laid with flowers on the bed and a glass of milk. Once they have got her to the room they all giggle and run out of the room and shut the door. The guy then will enter the room while the girl is all shy and waiting for her husband to hold her. In reality though would you just do it on the first night with no understanding of each other.
When you are going to spend the rest of your life together as a couple and both of you hardly know each other, would you just begin by making passionate love. Would you behave just like the movies?
Well the obvious logical answer is “No”. How can you just do it with someone you are going to start loving. We have seen that the Pundits do a lot of calculations to fix a date for the marriage. If you are married on that day how the hell are you suppose to do it the same day with no clue of what each one likes when making passionate love?
Different people behave differently we asked a few people to share their experiences and here are some pointers should you be getting married to someone you don’t know that well
This special night is a night to be remembered its like your first date. Instead of focusing on making love focus on telling each other what this marriage means to you. How special you think the person is who is married to you. What were your initial thoughts when you saw this person first. What are the important things you need to know about the other person to get to know them better.
Talk about your friends circle and what you felt on the day of being married. Speak about why today you don’t want to jet have sex but you want to take time for both of you to feel comfortable with each other. Hug each other and communicate how both of you felt about the hug. Hug again and again and enjoy that special moment.
Give it a week or two before you both feel comfortable with each other and then try out passionate love making. All the best for your married life and take things slowly and enjoy every moment of your marriage life. We are all gifted to remain happy and content its how we approach each situation that matters.