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Are you in an emotional abusive relationship?

March 18th, 2009 | No Comments | Posted in Love & Sex

Often in life when we fall in love very few of us are lucky to have that perfect limbo where both people in the relationship play fair and are friends with each other. There are others that go through the physical abuse and others go through emotional abuse. Not many people who are in such a relationship are aware that they are in fact in an emotional abusive relationship.

Its rather sad that we face this behavior. How do you get to know if you are subconsciously in an emotional abusive relationship. Its not as traumatic as physical abuse but the tricks it plays with your mind and heart is something you need to be aware of

If you have faced a situation where on person in the relationship throws a fit when you come late from work, or is moody, or does not value your thoughts or feelings, constantly seeks affection and feels threatened, feels a bit jealousy of your friends or close family relations on the basis of the age old saying ” you don’t love me like before” or “you don’t have time for me” or “i spent the whole day thinking about you”, etc

No matter what efforts you make its never good enough. Do you see yourself

  • Making excuses for this persons behavior
  • Do you always look to see good in this person and find faults with everyone around you?
  • Do you appreciate this person more than anyone around you and give yourself comfort that this person is very caring?
  • Are you always careful to speak properly in front of your partner?
  • Do you feel blamed for the relationship fights?
  • Is this person stubborn and goes to lengths to prove that they are right?, do you feel you has lost confidence to face and socialize with the outside world?
  • If some of the above sound familiar then its high time you open your eyes and face reality that you may be a victim of an emotional abusive relationship. You may be early and these signs are just showing up, if that’s the case then do something about it before its too late. If you are already going through this for a few years then you still have a chance to snap out of this.

    If you have the courage to face up to this and do something you will be helping both people in this relationship as in the long run you will save your relationship from a disaster. Don’t neglect this or it may be too late. Take charge of your life now…

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